Best successes come after their disappointments(Howard Ward Beecher)!!!!

I really believe in this Quote by Beecher….Yes we have to fail to become successful.Your brain is like an Iron it should get hot,so until something doesn’t strike it our brain doesn’t get heated up.So failures are like the fire which heats up our brain.when our brain becomes an heated ore then it starts about success.

For me success is like a heated fire,until you face the real world of failures you can’t survive in this world.Fail and fail until you get succeed.Immediate success and Immediate fame are dangerous.One should get into the path of success or fame through the steps of failure.Then the steps of success would be in the head of the successful humanbeing.we have to find the value in failure.we have to learn from the failures.we have to define that failures are the stepping stones for success.Best people learn from their mistakes.

 Thomas Edison, you will know what it takes to be successful. Thomas Edison,  failed more than 10,000 times just to find out the right material for light emission.And do u know Colonel Sanders, the founder of Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC), get rejected for selling his recipe more than 1,000 times before he finally got “YES”.

 In the greater scope of achieving life goals, the fear of failure is an enormous hurdle for most people to jump.  The truth is failure cannot be avoided forever.  Those who attempt to flee from it their entire lives almost certainly miss great opportunities and even greater rewards.

 We sometimes overanalyze and think too much about the failures in life.  What you have to remember is that there is still a lot of livin’ to do and each second wishing and wondering about things happening differently, is a second wasted.  Try to remember that even though you’ve experienced a setback, there are still many more opportunities ahead even if you do not see them right away.

Getting up and getting back out there is the only real way to live.  Some of the most successful people in the world had done that,they lived life by building the failure steps and bringing them to get up you may be the one who would be one of the most successful person…!!!


Positive Mind

Positive thinking will have you looking at the positive side of life.The best thing of being positive is you will have calm mind and peaceful ness.Always think that there is something for you to do in life.Let every thing go and may the situations lead for your lonliness be positive.Positive things happen to positive people.

Fear is the killer of all dreams. It will hold you back, it will make you stress, and it will turn something good into something bad.Becoming a positive thinker eliminates fear. When you know for certain in your mind that you can turn burdens into blessings, you’ll have nothing to fear. You see, all our emotions are created by what we think. Fear comes from thinking about the negative. Give fear a kick in the butt by thinking positive.

Look at the most enthusiastic things happened in your life.Try to do things that you like most and grind them in your mind.Your mind is your friend or enemy.Make it your friend and make it a horse which hops in brilliant mood.

Being aware of one’s own strengths and weaknesses, having some flexibility in our definitions of success and acknowledging and learning from mistakes are also essential for positive mind.A positive person will deal with this bad news a lot better than a negative person.People like optimists, they like to be around them and they seek their advice and opinions.
With the positive mind you can acheive wonders you can make the world around you colurful.

When you feel down, depressed and sorry for yourself watch people around you there are many around us who are more distressed than us and who have more troubles than us.we should be greatful that we were atleast in a position that not many people were in.So go out with a positive mind and make your life beautiful

3 Types of People

According to my understanding there are 3 types of people in this world.

The one who knows his future and dares :  These people are rock solid and they dare to acheive what ever they want in life.For them this is the future and this is Life.They think of it,they visualize it they dream of it and they organizes it step by step to get there.

The one who knows his future and doesn’t dare:  These people know what to do in future and what they have to do to become successful and they know how to build step by step and how they want to shape their life,But the problem they have is they don’t know how to go and how to dare in life.They think of negativeness and the fear of failure will overpower them.

The one who doesn’t know his future at all :  These guys doesn’t think of future and they are not known of visualizing and they dont know how to get into the perfect world.They doesn’t think of going step by step and they doesn’t dream of Implementing anything.


Life is enthusiastic every failure makes us hard and every failure makes our brain hard ,every failure makes our brain a nerve of steel.U have to face the music if u want to win in life.

If u think of future and dare the Probability of succcess is 90%.If u think of future and doesn’t dare the probability of success is 40%.If u doesn’t think of future at all the probability of success is 10%.

So never leave life to luck or fear there is much to explore and don’t fear if u fail once the success is yet to come.

Be focused on what you want to achieve in life.Be enthusiastic about what you do. Show it. Be committed to life and everything that you set out to accomplish in life.Think your self as successful human being and dream of it.

So know the probability ……..What u want to be …90% or 40% or 10%……..Think wisely and Rock on…!!!

Live for Nothing Die for Something

As my analysis in these years i had Categorized people in 3 ways, One is People who analyse  their Future and Dare themselves in their life  the other category of people is who analyse their future and never Dare in life and the third Category is who never analyse their future.People who had analyzed their future and dared themselves had been the leaders and acheivers.                                                         


We have to live with some purpose in life .Life is a human existance with different theories,different assumptions and different perceptions.Many people don’t analyse themselves and think they are going in a wrong way of life,When they realize there is nothing left to do for them in this world.Fate is already determined every human lives only for 60yrs.What ever you are we have to fight for something in life,Change the way of thinking think that you are something to this world and you are born to do something in life.

We may die at any point of time and we are  not certain in this world.Every day is a game in life and every point is an adventure.Think something in your mind act as if you can acheive that and grind that in your mind,think that of day and night you can rock this world.Aim as if you can drink the whole water in river as swami vivekananda told think that your nerves are made of steel,you can grind down a mountain before you.

There are many people who are around you who Hates you ..Love you..Play with you..Exceed you..Take you..Save you and Break you..But that’s what that makes you.You have to definitely think that “I CAN BECOME SOMETHING”.There is no such man as rich and poor.Change the mindset,be a warrior in life.Life is a game play it you can enjoy a lot.People around the world may be the Poor ,Rich ,Emperor,King ,President or Dictator every one do have their problems and every human is sorrounded with different problems around his head.Think that you can be something and you can do something(This is the secret of most successful people).

Living without some aim is a Crime.Which ever field you choose strive for excellence and be inspirational.What ever you do you have to be the trendsetter and you have to live as you are definitely looking at doing something in life.What ever good you do It helps people around you and a page would be open for you in the History.


Self Confidence

Many people get Scared for small things.There is an Survey saying that more Self Confidence that you have the More you Succeed.There would be many things that would be beyond our control,which can deramp our confidence level and make us Vulnerable, But whatever the situation is making our self more esteemed and being  confident is the best weapon a human had until this day.

Know your power and know your self ,Every born human has some Internal power in himself.With selfconfidence u can act on  many things in life and u can make other people educate to bring his internal skills outside.

The best way to boost up our selfconfidence is to talk with people ..Yes what you heard is right socialize and talk with people you will have many things to learn from them.Many fear to talk to people as they think that ,If they are wrong at some point people may laugh at them.Yes people will laugh at you but that won’t be your stopping point talk with as many people as you can that boosts your confidence.

Identify where you are weak ..Think positively in that.Some people are afraid to talk in public,Some people are afraid to go into public,Some people can’t express their views ,Identify them.No one had started walking when we were born.We learnt to fall first when we started walking.Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. Learn that life is full of bumps down the road.No one has smooth roads to travel every one do have to travel through thorns of Life and no ones life is sweet.

Talk positively about yourself. U are not less than anyone.Confident man think that he can attempt anything.So attempt things,Just think you can do.Let it be a failure but you would have satisfaction that you had tried and failed,It gives you immense pleasure.The winning and losing depends on your mind set,there is no such word as losing.Losing means that you are getting ready to win one more time.

Focus less on how others see you,People do have different perceptions on you.Some people think you are good,some think you are bad,some think u are talented and some may think u have no talent.Let them assume and let them think what they want be confident ,Know your goal.Target for that aimlessly.If you are selfconfident your mental and physical abilities will change.You will speak that you can overcome anythink.Your face becomes brighter and your Voice does become enchanting.

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent this word is said by Roosevelt.Success and belief comes when you think i Can not in I can’t.There is a Quote by Edward McGrath in a Book  “I’m not eight yet.  My mom told me when you start baseball, you aren’t going to be able to run that fast because you had an operation.  I told Mom I wouldn’t need to run that fast.  When I play baseball, I’ll  just hit them out of the park.  Then I’ll be able to walk”. So be confident and rule the Life.

Being Positive

This earth is enjoyed by hero’s this is an Unfailing truth….say that i am hero ,say this to Everyone..Fear is death,Fear is sin,Fear is Wrong life,Fear is Unrighteousness,Fear is hell…So get the Fear out of your life and become a hero..These words were said by great Swami Vivekananda.The moment we fear in life we would be in a position that we won’t be able to move a bit in life.Fear would be the basic point in life that pulls a human from the Ladder.


The first wod we have to eliminate from the life is I Can’t …there are many things in this world that are really not possible but we have to try for that and think i can do that..may be u would be failing each and every time you try..but it gives you atmost confidence when you start trying.Just say for youself  “I CAN” see the change in the way you see the life.The person who believes he can achieve anything, become whomever he wants.

        ” Research shows that optimistic people tend to make more money than miserable ones”.

I would add up a site  to look into real life stories of People who had gone into distress of life and had picked up and had become one of the Best in life.There will be many situtaions that can pull us down.I had been watching a TV Program in a Regional channel where the Program is Designed for Blind people who can sing they doesn’t have  eyes to see this world.Their Confidence is so high in the event they sing as if they are people who can acheive anything.God won’t help every one with open arms there will be so many phases in life for rich or poor to establish themselves as mature humanbeings.Everyone has to face struggles in life to become some one.Nothing in life is bread and butter.To get Gold out of Ore u have to heat it and beat it.That implies with human’s how many struggles you face you become matured and confident.The real spirit of life depends on these struggling period,we have to be positive in this struggling period.There are two level of people in the world who demolishes their life when they struggle and people who build ladders when they struggle.

The power of positive thinking is like a car with a powerful engine that can take you to the summit of a mountain.Do not let circumstances influence your thoughts and moods.Train your mind to think in terms of ‘possible’ and ‘can be done’.You can close the windows and darken your room, and you can open the windows and let light in. It is a matter of choice. Your mind is your room. Do you darken it or do you fill it with light?.Every thing in the life starts with a single step of being positiveness and having hope. Think positive and negative are directions which dirction will you be choosing.A small step a single step of positiveness will change you and your way of thinking.

so have positiveness in life ….Life is small and life is so beautiful be positive and when you wake up in the morning just clap your hands for your self and say to yourself that i am positive and i can do any thing in this world.Do it everyday and you can find difference in yourself after a week.You can feel the positiveness with in yourself.

Why Life is Important

There are many News Nowadays through Electronic media or through the Newspapers saying many People were Commiting Sucide due to Pressure. It had been so astonishing looking into the news.There would have been so many pressures in Life external or Internal……Failing up in the Examinations ,Love failure,Medical ailments,Financial Crisis,Relationship troubles..many things in Life,in which as a human being we would not be able to solve.But Life is a God’s gift..Until you die you have to live.

According to many Doctors Sucidal thoughts are Involuntary they just enter on their own and they enter deep into the mind.Prolonged life circumstances of extreme stress, emotional upset, abuse, poverty, terrible living conditions, neglect, poor health, injury, disability – especially with no apparent hope of change or improvement can and do precipitate depression and suicidal thoughts for some.

I heard this great story from one of my friends he said me  In a forest there is a Deer and A Lion .The deer should  run in its life because if it sits Idle it would be food for Lion and it would die.Lion has to run in its life beacuse if it sits idle it starvs to death without food.The proverb of this is If u are a deer or Lion you have to run if not u have to starve to death.It was such a good example where this  implies to all the human beings ….who ever you are you have to run in life.The pressure exists in this world for every human.In every aspect of life u have to run.But that’s not the pressure its thrill of life.I would rather suggest to be patient and be calm if any one does have a big calamity in life.

As a human being every one faces a calamity at any stage of life.May it be through financial barriers or through Relationship barriers or through Health related barriers….Be calm be cool just think for a day.All is well and all will be well.Be an optimist there had been a saying “The Tides and the Winds will always be on the side of Best Navigator”.

Be the best navigator in life … is so important  There are lots of beautiful things around us. It’s just a matter of how we see it and whether we’re able to realize it. In life, of course there are always some ups and downs. However, I believe, that even in the most difficult situation, there’s always a beautiful thing.. As wise people say, “Everything happens for a reason”. I would narrate a small story which had Inspired many people…… There had been a guy who was depressed by his happenings around him he was so poor and he was an Orphan, and he thought of Committing sucide.He went on to a bridge and prayed to God asking to give him a Richest birth in his Next life.After praying for 5 minutes he just thought with in Him self ..”Yes i am asking god to give me the richest life in the next Birth and How did people Become rich in this Birth”???  This was the Question arised in his mind and he immediately got down the Bridge ,He met most successful people in the town and he made their experiences as a Book and Printed it to the public.  With in 6 months the Book was so popular he became one of the richest guy in the town.

So everything depends on state of mind how positively you think..nothing happens if some calamity is around you be calm be patient.One wrong step can ruin a life.Everything is fine if u fail in an exam no problem you have much career to get.If u fail in love no problem you have many more relationships to Conquer.If u have financial crisis no problem may be tommorow is yours.If you have health related issues no problem there will be a very gud medicine for you which may be Invented by someone….Hope is the thing which makes everything…….Hope is the thing which runs the Universe.So be positive and be Optimistic…….”Impossible is Nothing” in life.