“I never see failure as failure, but only as the game I must play and win.”———(Tom Hopkins)

I heard a small word when I started growing up …. A game should be Played to win ,If you lose even 1000 times while Playing a game play 1001 time to Win.Always Evaluate yourself.The best result come to us when we Evaluate ourself.

A guy at the  age of 21 was defeated in a legislative race.  He failed again in business at age 24.He had a nervous breakdown at age 27.He lost a congressional race at age 34.He lost a senatorial race at age 45. He failed in an effort to become vice-president at age 47.He lost a senatorial race at age 49 and was elected president of the United States at age 52.

This man was Abraham Lincoln.

Every one called him failure was he a Failure…..No he had taken the Path of failure in the most Optimistic way.

How many tries could have we done If we want to sell something ????….Colonel Sanders, at age 65, with an Old car realized he had to do something. He remembered his mother’s recipe and went out selling. Do you know How many doors did he have to knock on before he got his first order? It is estimated that he had knocked on more than a thousand doors before he got his first order.

As a young cartoonist, Walt Disney faced many rejections from newspaper editors, who said he had no talent. One day a minister at a church hired him to draw some cartoons. Disney was working out of a small mouse­ infested shed near the church. After seeing a small mouse, he was inspired. That was the start of Mickey Mouse. He was Fired from a newspaper agency because he “lacked imagination and had no original ideas”  .He became icon in the field of entertainment during the 20th century.

  Gillette’s family home was destroyed in a Fire accident and everything was lost in that Accident.He became a travelling sales man.In 1985 he got a brilliant Idea of making a razor after 6 yrs of extensive work.During that time, technical experts told Gillette that it would be impossible to produce steel that was hard, thin, and inexpensive enough for commercial development of the disposable razor blade.By 1910 some 3.5 million razors and 32 million blades were put into military hands, thereby converting an entire nation to the Gillette safety razor.

Michel Jordan was sent out from the school basket ball team said he was useless to play Basketball.He went home, locked himself in his room and cried.

Charles Darwin father told him that he is Useless and he is no worth to his family.

F.W.Woolworth was told that he doesn’t have enough sense to deal with the Customers in th store that he worked.

She was broke, living on welfare, severely depressed, divorced and a single mother while attending school and attempting to write her first novel she is J.K.Rowling who Created Harry potter.

Enduring a rough and often abusive childhood, she faced numerous career setbacks including being fired from her first job because she was unfit for TV she was Oprah Winfrey.



The pursuit of success is full of some failures. In fact, the more we fail, the greater our success. Look in to History and there would be full of people who might never have made a success of their lives without some big challenges.



Zig Ziglar once said, “Failure is an event, not a person.” See if you can figure out who’s who in these descriptions

As you can see, these are just a few of the people who refused to listen to the criticism or the “experts”.


Love yourself

I had seen people hating themselves what ever the reason may be. Every one in this world will have their own problems.I had seen many people around me struggling for small things.Every human who was born in this planet do have some capability in him to deliver something.

Loving yourself makes us respectable.Every one in this world does make a mistake or he would do something which is foolish.Learning from mistakes and not doing that again gives us self-respect.Every day is a new beginning.Every one whom we meet can bring a new shine to our life. We have to be Ourself, Never  just blindly follow other peoples suggestions. Think of whom you are and what you are Capable of.

Emotions are nothing  than internal experiences which contribute to who we are. Problems are common to every one. I too had faced so many problems in my life.I used to think that problems would only come to me.But when i changed the method of thinking and tried to be so positive in life my way of living had changed.Accepting negative things as opportunities is another perspective can yield great results.Trust your own judgement. Everything suggested, while it may work for the person who added it, might not work for you. Learn to trust yourself, that is a big part of self-love.

 Make it a habit to praise yourself everyday. Because of such thoughts, you naturally undertake empowering actions that support your development.Have confidence in your abilities. Know that you have the ability to make important changes for yourself, for as long as you put your heart to it. You can also support yourself by visualizing desired outcomes.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. —Mark Twain.When you learn to see beauty in every thing, you will also see beauty in yourself. Hence, stop to smell the flowers. Notice everything. Feel everything.Life is a Fragrance feel it enjoy it Live it.Worrying about nonsense does not help. It doesn’t make things happen. Only wise actions can. So instead of worrying, spend time thinking about what you can do and what you are.

This is our life this is us who made it and we are responsible for carrying that forward.Lets enjoy the life and there is thrill in taking what it comes and how it comes.