Feelings Can Change Your Life!!!

Life is an Mixture of Good and Bad Feelings .The basic thing that we have to know as a Humanbeing is how we feel and how we react to a Situation.Because the Law of the Universe and the whole Life structure does depend on the feelings and thoughts of an Individual.

How can feelings change your Life? Take my Situation I Used to get petrified when I used to do Mathematics.I used to Fail in Maths everytime when I had given up an Exam.Until today I was not Comfortable with Maths.What made me be Like this? that’s the feeling that I can never Conquer maths made me Fragile.Even today if I look into Caliculus I feel something in my Stomach.So I came to Know a Simple Secret behind this when you see a Person,Thing,Product or Anything in this World the First Impression comes from your Feelings.Because our thoughts Cause our feelings that’s True.Never in this world u can think bad about a thing or a Circumstance and Feel good about It.

    For every feeling there is an Universal Rule and the Rule is “I am thinking good about this”.There are many situations even if you think good they may fail.It doesn’t mean that what makes you feel good is always a Success,the thing here is Feeling good brings you positiveness,Feeling good brings you energy,Feeling good creates a future that you can play,feeling good vibrates a frequency that brings more thoughts.When you are feeling good you are attracting more things and more people to you.

 I used to Fail in many things that I had attempted in my life.I had gone through many turmoils that life had shown.I had been in a Positive mind whole my Journey until today.I felt that oneday that things are going to be Positive.Today I am enjoying a beautiful life with my Loving wife and that’s beacuse once during the difficult phase of life I thought that one day the sweetest thing is going to come my way.

Life is a Chain Reaction,we don’t know the Vicious Circle. When One thing goes wrong  everything tends to go wrong and we are locked in the bad phases of life.Then your feelings towards life tend to change and your thoughts tend to attract wrong things.Focus on an Event that you want to do.Lift that Event with a feeling.You may not succeed the first or second or third time but eventually you will lift that up and elivate into brighter event in your life. Don’t live in the past. There’s nothing in the past that you can change or correct — that can only be done in the present. Present is the Only thing that we need to change, and move on to feeling good about your life. Don’t waste your time complaining where you go, what you enjoy,how you dress, what you do, what you think about.Be willing to stand up for what’s right for you.
Shift the thoughts to good things.Because when you start to attract good feelings that is the way that change your frequency.The universe will get a hold of you and It starts sending the Positive Vibrations into your life .Life had thought us many things and we are in the phase of discovering it.Until our last breath in this Universe we keep on discovering things.As I heard somewhere “Known is drop and Unknown is an Ocean”.Until now we thought that thinking is hard and life had not given us good things to lead.But the easy way to say is everything had been so easy and life is cool and so good to me and life had given me everything…revitalize every moment and just say it to yourself and see the change once you start to say these.There is truth and answer inside us.The life had given many good things and we deserve all that good.Beacause you are the Creator of yourself no one can Create you.


Trip to Alleppey Back Water’s on House Boat

Alleppey named “Alappuzha” is Certainly the ‘Venice of the East’  but    this  little town is certainly the Venice of India. Nowhere else will you find, spread out across the center of town, a unique crisscrossing network of canals on which thatched country boats punt along leisurely.

We had reached Alleppey at 1.00pm in the afternoon and Our House boat was booked from 1.00pm to 12.00pm the Next day.We were 10 people and we had booked a 3 bedroom boat which is Awesome.We all had a Blast up there inside the Boat.The boat would be parked in mid of the Back waters the Whole night and we had an Awesome Experience.

We had been serverd with good food for lunch on the Boat.After a Heavy Lunch we had been taken Into a Ride into backwaters.

 All foods are provided by the houseboat. Starting from welcome drink as tender coconut to Traditional Kerala Cousine with fish fry as lunch. Snacks in the evening and a beautiful dinner in the mid of the lake. (with rice,roti, chicken and others).

 The Great way to Relax and Great way to have an Enthusiastic Experience.

 We played cards and we had good time having a Chilled Beer up there on the Boat.

At  backwater and the scenic natural beauty we enjoyed the astounding beauty, hard to find anywhere else in the world. In addition we had chance to see  the harmonious mix of traditional and the modern splendor well furnished with contemporary facilities like deluxe A/C rooms with attach bath, open sit out area to enjoy the splendor of the surrounding and many alike that make the houseboat tour more enjoyable and experince of lifetime.





The four river estuaries and the labyrinthine canals, amidst the  emerald green tropical vegetation and exotic fauna. Birds, fishes,   animals, butterflies, flowers, paddy fields, waterlilies, and a lot more add to the charm and magic of the backwaters, all of which can be seen on a cruise voyage through the tranquil water-scape.I had taken a Houseboat for a Ride in mid of the Backwater’s  and had an thrilling Experience.I rode the boat for 15 minutes.It is one of the very few places in the world where farming is done below sea level. This is an striking example of the indigenous agricultural engineering . Here cultivation and habitation are made possible at four to ten feet below the sea level.  For this purpose extensive land has been reclaimed from the backwaters and is protected by dikes built around it.

   I Heard that in months of August and September the glorious backwaters overflows. Hundreds of men and women gather on the banks to witness a spectacular view especially, the Snake Boat Races. The most famous event of boat race is the “Nehru Trophy Boat Race”. It is held on the second saturday of every August. There are a dozen other snake boat races, providing an unforgettable and truly special scene. The fund of energy, spirit of competition and unerring co-ordination makes this sport extremely dynamic.



   I recommend everyone who would like to Tour and Visit Places and go for a Honeymoon to definitely visit Alleppy.You can have a Great experience and you can enjoy a lot and can have a memorable life time Experience.

“I never see failure as failure, but only as the game I must play and win.”———(Tom Hopkins)

I heard a small word when I started growing up …. A game should be Played to win ,If you lose even 1000 times while Playing a game play 1001 time to Win.Always Evaluate yourself.The best result come to us when we Evaluate ourself.

A guy at the  age of 21 was defeated in a legislative race.  He failed again in business at age 24.He had a nervous breakdown at age 27.He lost a congressional race at age 34.He lost a senatorial race at age 45. He failed in an effort to become vice-president at age 47.He lost a senatorial race at age 49 and was elected president of the United States at age 52.

This man was Abraham Lincoln.

Every one called him failure was he a Failure…..No he had taken the Path of failure in the most Optimistic way.

How many tries could have we done If we want to sell something ????….Colonel Sanders, at age 65, with an Old car realized he had to do something. He remembered his mother’s recipe and went out selling. Do you know How many doors did he have to knock on before he got his first order? It is estimated that he had knocked on more than a thousand doors before he got his first order.

As a young cartoonist, Walt Disney faced many rejections from newspaper editors, who said he had no talent. One day a minister at a church hired him to draw some cartoons. Disney was working out of a small mouse­ infested shed near the church. After seeing a small mouse, he was inspired. That was the start of Mickey Mouse. He was Fired from a newspaper agency because he “lacked imagination and had no original ideas”  .He became icon in the field of entertainment during the 20th century.

  Gillette’s family home was destroyed in a Fire accident and everything was lost in that Accident.He became a travelling sales man.In 1985 he got a brilliant Idea of making a razor after 6 yrs of extensive work.During that time, technical experts told Gillette that it would be impossible to produce steel that was hard, thin, and inexpensive enough for commercial development of the disposable razor blade.By 1910 some 3.5 million razors and 32 million blades were put into military hands, thereby converting an entire nation to the Gillette safety razor.

Michel Jordan was sent out from the school basket ball team said he was useless to play Basketball.He went home, locked himself in his room and cried.

Charles Darwin father told him that he is Useless and he is no worth to his family.

F.W.Woolworth was told that he doesn’t have enough sense to deal with the Customers in th store that he worked.

She was broke, living on welfare, severely depressed, divorced and a single mother while attending school and attempting to write her first novel she is J.K.Rowling who Created Harry potter.

Enduring a rough and often abusive childhood, she faced numerous career setbacks including being fired from her first job because she was unfit for TV she was Oprah Winfrey.



The pursuit of success is full of some failures. In fact, the more we fail, the greater our success. Look in to History and there would be full of people who might never have made a success of their lives without some big challenges.



Zig Ziglar once said, “Failure is an event, not a person.” See if you can figure out who’s who in these descriptions

As you can see, these are just a few of the people who refused to listen to the criticism or the “experts”.

Love yourself

I had seen people hating themselves what ever the reason may be. Every one in this world will have their own problems.I had seen many people around me struggling for small things.Every human who was born in this planet do have some capability in him to deliver something.

Loving yourself makes us respectable.Every one in this world does make a mistake or he would do something which is foolish.Learning from mistakes and not doing that again gives us self-respect.Every day is a new beginning.Every one whom we meet can bring a new shine to our life. We have to be Ourself, Never  just blindly follow other peoples suggestions. Think of whom you are and what you are Capable of.

Emotions are nothing  than internal experiences which contribute to who we are. Problems are common to every one. I too had faced so many problems in my life.I used to think that problems would only come to me.But when i changed the method of thinking and tried to be so positive in life my way of living had changed.Accepting negative things as opportunities is another perspective can yield great results.Trust your own judgement. Everything suggested, while it may work for the person who added it, might not work for you. Learn to trust yourself, that is a big part of self-love.

 Make it a habit to praise yourself everyday. Because of such thoughts, you naturally undertake empowering actions that support your development.Have confidence in your abilities. Know that you have the ability to make important changes for yourself, for as long as you put your heart to it. You can also support yourself by visualizing desired outcomes.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. —Mark Twain.When you learn to see beauty in every thing, you will also see beauty in yourself. Hence, stop to smell the flowers. Notice everything. Feel everything.Life is a Fragrance feel it enjoy it Live it.Worrying about nonsense does not help. It doesn’t make things happen. Only wise actions can. So instead of worrying, spend time thinking about what you can do and what you are.

This is our life this is us who made it and we are responsible for carrying that forward.Lets enjoy the life and there is thrill in taking what it comes and how it comes.

Be confident in whatever circumstances you are in..

Be confident of you and be highly dependent on how you feel about yourself.Everyday is a Challenge. Instead if you approach your day as a new challenge that you are ready and prepared to take on. Obviously not all people feel good all the time so when you are feeling low deal with it before a situation arises.

Every situation is in our hands and Deal it positively.Focus on the importance of the situation.I had been in those situations before where i used to feel low and my day used to be calm and routine.I too had gone through the situations where i used to feel this is Useless and I am useless….But the next minute I used to electrify myself saying that I am better than more people in this world.

Self consciousness can be the greatest detriment confidence.  Self consciousness is the little voice inside which questions how beautiful, motivated and equipped you are to tackle each day. Stop self conscious talk before it begins, choose from the start of the day how you will feel and stick to it. Learning to be positive when no-one else can cope is best way to gain the confidence.Trust your self. Breathe and say yourself that you can do anything.

Criticism  is important for the sake of your confidence . When the words of others are unhelpful and hurtful this is abuse and is not to be tolerated. Remove yourself from people who cannot offer helpful useful criticisms.

 It is important when in a difficult situation that you have a back up plan. Have a second plan for everything every situation In life.When you take a Decision make sure that you take it Confidently.May that fail that would be Other part of life.Taking decisions confidently will win you situations.

“Play game to Win…If you lose don’t worry …Play the next game to Win…..Surely one day you will win when you play to Win”

Power of Positive Human

Always visualize only favorable and beneficial situations.Every human has his own problems and own risks. Use positive words . Smile a little more, as this helps to think positively. Disregard any feelings of laziness or a desire to quit. Never say die and never think you lost until the final key is tried. You will transform the way your mind thinks.

It does not matter what your circumstances are at the present moment. Think positively, expect only favorable results and situations, and circumstances will change accordingly. It may take some time for the changes to take place, but eventually they do.

Once a negative thought enters your mind, you have to be aware of it and endeavor to replace it with a constructive one. The negative thought will try again to enter your mind, and then you have to replace it again with a positive one. It is as if there are two pictures in front of you, and you choose to look at one of them and disregard the other. Persistence will eventually teach your mind to think positively and ignore negative thoughts.

All of us affect, in one way or another, the people we meet. This happens instinctively and on a subconscious level, through thoughts and feelings transference, and through body language. People sense our aura and are affected by our thoughts, and vice versa. Is it any wonder that we want to be around positive people and avoid negative ones? People are more disposed to help us if we are positive, and they dislike and avoid anyone broadcasting negativity.

Negative thoughts, words and attitude bring up negative and unhappy moods and actions. When the mind is negative, poisons are released into the blood, which cause more unhappiness and negativity. This is the way to failure, frustration and disappointment.

Too often, there are many negative thoughts in our life. People don’t really understand the nature of positive thinking. Positive thinking is a form of thought which habitually looks for the best results from the worst conditions. It is possible to look for something to build on, it is possible to expect the best for yourself even though things look bad. And the remarkable fact is that when you seek good, you are very likely to find it.

Do you know Sam walton’s wallmart philosophy??

“Go the other way. Ignore the conventional wisdom. If everybody else is doing it one way, there is a good chance you can find your niche by going in exactly the opposite direction. But be prepared for a lot of folks to wave you down and tell you that you are headed the wrong way. I guess in all my years, what I heard more often than anything else was: a town of less than 50,000 population cannot support a discount store for very long.” Sam Walton.

Make your self believe that u can do any thing…!!!

Wake up early in the morning …see up into the sky and think that u are lucky that you are born as human being.Honestly make your self believe that you were born to do something in this world.Life is short and u have many struggles in your life to face in between. Believe that you are made here and you were born here to do something.

There would be situations where you face that you would have lost everything ..Money,Job,Relationships,Dear ones….everything..But believe in yourself that one day you would become someone and can do something.Ignite yourself and say to yourself saying that “Some one had created me here because i would do something here in this world”.

Make your mind multidimensional ….Every loss should make you more roboust and learn you to be positive in life.No one knows the mysteries of life but for those who are willing to believe in themselves and dream that they can become someone who belong here can do anything in life. Life is a precious gift in which anything is possible.Wait for the time to come… Oneday would be your’s……one day can change your life wait for the day……

Travel the road that you have chosen and don’t look back with regret. You have to take chances to make your dreams happen and believe in yourself that how strong you believe you succed in life.You don’t always have to win, but you do need to know what it takes to be a winner.It’s up to you to find the key that unlocks……